My Ex Dumped Me for My Best Friend Because I Was ‘Too Fat’ — on Their Wedding Day , Karma Stepped In

My Ex Dumped Me for My Best Friend Because I Was ‘Too Fat’ — on Their Wedding Day , Karma Stepped In

“You’re great, Larkin. You really are. You have such a good heart,” he said. “But you didn’t take care of yourself. I deserve someone who matches me.”

That was the line that really did it.

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I gave him a trash bag for his things.

Matches me.

Like I was the wrong shoes for his suit.

Maren didn’t say a word. Not one. Just crossed her arms, eyes shining, and let him talk.

I gave him a trash bag for his things.

I told her to leave my key on the counter.

Within three months, they were engaged.

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Then I sat on my kitchen floor and felt everything collapse inward.

Within weeks, they were posting couple photos.

Within three months, they were engaged.

People sent me screenshots. I muted half my contacts.

Abby offered to help me slash his tires. I laughed and cried and said no.

I couldn’t stand being in my body with that voice in my head.

Instead, I turned all the hate inward.

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He just said what everyone else thinks, I told myself. You’re great, but. You’re funny, but. If you’d really loved him, you’d have lost the weight.

I couldn’t stand being in my body with that voice in my head.

So I started changing the only thing I could control.

Little by little, I walked farther.

I joined Abby’s gym.

The first day, I lasted eight minutes on the treadmill before my lungs lit on fire. I pretended I had to pee, hid in the bathroom, and cried.

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The second day, I went back.

Little by little, I walked farther. Jogged. Lifted light weights. Watched form videos on YouTube in my car so I wouldn’t look stupid.

I cut back on takeout. Learned to roast vegetables without burning them. Logged my food obsessively. Drank more water.

Then my face looked sharper in the mirror.

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