My grandfather raised me and my sister, Karen, after our parents died in a car accident.
I was nine, and Karen was 12. We were lucky to have him.
Grandpa Harold was the kind of man who made you feel safe with his presence.
We were lucky to have him.
He owned a beautiful house with a wide porch. Every summer, he hung a tire swing from the oak tree, and in winter, he made hot chocolate for us.
When we were kids, Karen and I used to fight over who got to sit next to him at dinner.
Somewhere along the way, that changed.
Karen started pulling away when she reached high school.
Karen and I used to fight.
My sister made new friends and stayed out late. Grandpa never argued with her. He simply told her that the door would always be open.
I stayed close to him, helped around the house, and listened to his stories.
Sometimes they were the same stories he’d told a hundred times before, but I didn’t mind.
Years passed, and Grandpa grew older.
Then, in recent years, he got very sick.
Grandpa never argued with her.
The doctor said his heart was weak.
After that, I began visiting him every day after work.
Some days I cooked meals; on others, I cleaned or picked up groceries.
Most of the time, we just talked.
Karen didn’t visit.
Once, when Grandpa had been in the hospital for a week, I called her and begged her to come.
“Karen, he keeps asking about you,” I said over the phone. “You should come see him.”
The doctor said his heart was weak.
She sighed loudly.
“I don’t want to waste time with that senile old man,” Karen said. “You handle it.”
Her words hurt, but I never told Grandpa what she said because caring for him never felt hard for me. I love him more than I can say.
When he asked where she was, I just smiled and said, “She’s busy with work.”
He always nodded as if he understood.
“You handle it.”
The last few months were the hardest.
Grandpa could barely walk, and he needed help with almost everything. I sometimes sat beside him through the night when his breathing got rough.
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